Wrestling

2 Peter 3:16 (KJV)

[16] As also in all his epistles, speaking in them of these things; in which are some things hard to be understood, which they that are unlearned and unstable *(wrest), as they do also the other scriptures, unto their own destruction.

Possibly and partially a play on words. But the writers intent and the authors application is clear.

When we struggle with scripture it is our human nature that often times is unwilling to Conform. Better to master your human nature than to suffer destruction being resistant. 

Rules without Relationship will suffocate. 

Relationships without Rules will deteriorate. 

Relationships without Rules will become shallow. 

Rules without Relationships will become hard.

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牧師 Pastor, R.D. Frazier

1 Peter 4:11